A 10/10 *at home* Maintenance Day | Preparing for my Trip 💅🏽✨ (*sigh* I love being a girl)

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May 9, 2025

Key Takeaways

  • 1Small maintenance choices stack into real confidence.
  • 2Prep days work best when they feel like a ritual, not a chore.
  • 3Cute details matter, but safety and comfort come first.
  • 4You can refresh your look with simple tools at home.
  • 5Your routine does not need to look perfect to help you feel ready.

Every trip starts way before the airport or the car ride. It starts in the bathroom mirror with your bonnet half on, your lashes in one hand, and a little bit of chaos in the background. That is exactly the energy of this maintenance day. It is not a full spa day, but it is a “let me get myself together so I feel like me on this trip” kind of day.

This routine is not about turning into a different person. It is about tuning up what is already there. Brows, lashes, nails, gas runs, little mishaps, all of it adds up to that quiet confidence when you grab your bag and head out the door.


Turning A Regular Day Into A Prep Ritual

This day starts in a very real way. No perfect morning routine at 7 a.m. The clock already moved, time is ticking, and the to do list has vibes like “you have nine minutes to figure your life out, good luck.”

Prep days feel like that sometimes. You have errands, a trip coming up, and a random mix of tasks that do not look cute on paper. The shift happens when you treat it like a little ritual instead of just a checklist. You light some music, talk to yourself in the mirror, and decide that even the small tasks are part of the glow up.

You may not have a whole day to yourself. That is fine. Even an hour with focused maintenance can shift how you feel.


Brows And Lashes: Tiny Things, Big Energy

First up, brows. They are not tragic. They are not wild. They just need a quick clean up to feel fresh. That is the point of maintenance. You are not always doing a full transformation. You are giving the features you already love a little polish so you feel sharp again.

Then come lashes. These come from Amazon, short and natural, nothing heavy. They sit between “bare face” and “full glam,” which is perfect for travel. You can wake up, brush your teeth, and already look a bit awake.

Lashes are one of those tiny details that can change how you carry yourself. When they feel right, you look at your reflection and think “okay, I see you.” You do not need them. You simply enjoy the extra spark.

A very important detail: the bonnet and mirror situation. If you have ever stuffed a mirror into your bonnet by accident, you are not alone. Getting ready is never as graceful as the internet makes it look. Sometimes it is you, a crooked mirror, and a timer counting down.


Gas Station Chaos And Real Life Grown Girl Stuff

No prep day is complete without the practical side. That means gas. Again.

The gas station part is not glamorous at all. The car is parked a little too close, you step out, and now you are dodging gas on the ground while trying not to smell like the entire pump. It even splashes on the car. Cute.

Mom’s nail kit rides along as another reminder that grown life looks like this. You run errands, juggle beauty fixes, and clean up small messes along the way. That is part of being on your own. No one swoops in to handle it. You learn, you laugh, you wipe up the spill, and you keep it moving.


Nail Time: Short, Clean, And Trip Ready

Next, it is nail time. Old polish comes off. Length comes down. The goal is not extreme claws, it is comfort. Travel days are easier when your nails are not fighting you every time you pick up a suitcase or open a snack.

Shorter nails do not mean less cute. They look fresh, clean, and intentional. You can pick a soft color, a simple shape, and still feel put together when you reach for your bag or snap a selfie.

Using what you already have, like your mom’s nail kit, reminds you that maintenance does not always require a salon appointment. You can do a lot at home with a little bit of patience and some background music.

This part of the routine is low key, but it sends a clear message to yourself. You care about the small things that make your day smoother.


Why Prep Days Matter For Your Confidence

By the end of the day, everything small adds up. Brows are done. Lashes are on. Nails are trimmed and painted. Your bag is a little more ready. The car has gas. Your reflection feels familiar, just leveled up.

Prep days matter for more than photos. They change how you show up on the trip itself. When you walk through the airport or ride in the car, you are not distracted by chipped polish or lashes hanging on by a thread. You get to focus on the moment, not on fixing things.

There is something powerful about taking a day, or even a few hours, to say “I am worth this effort.” It is not vanity. It is care. It is respect for the body and face that carry you through life.

Maintenance is not perfection. Some parts of the day are messy. You spill gas. You rush. You misplace things. You forget how tight your bonnet is and snatch it off with your mirror still inside. That does not cancel the glow up. It simply proves you are human.


Turning Your Own Maintenance Day Into A Reset

If you want to try your own maintenance day before a trip, keep it simple:

  • Pick three main things that would make you feel more ready, such as brows, hair, nails, or packing your carry on.
  • Set a time limit so you stay focused. Pressure can help sometimes, in a healthy way.
  • Use what you already have at home before you buy something new.
  • Treat it like quality time with yourself, not punishment for how you look now.
  • Let it be imperfect. Laugh when something goes left. Then fix it and move on.

When your trip starts, you will not just have a suitcase and a ticket. You will have a version of you that feels cared for, present, and ready to enjoy what is coming next.

That is the real point of a maintenance day. It is less about the brows or the nails and more about the girl you are becoming while you take care of them.

Full Transcript

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It's maintenance day. Sort of. I'm preparing for a trip. First thing first is these brows. They're not terrible, but I just want a little maintenance moment. Time for lashes. I get these from Amazon, by the way. They're so small. [Music] Done. Um, okay. I need to get all of this situated in nine minutes. Let's do [Music] this. Okay. Oh my god, I put it backwards again. I always do that. I always put my mirror inside my bonnet. Tada. This is so cute. Oh my gosh. I got this. I got this. Later. Lat...

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